We have all seen this happen.
a guy is talking to a girl.
who is wearing a low cut blouse.
the guys eyes start to stare down to the womans cleavage.
she goes ballistic.
"MY EYES ARE UP HERE, BUDDY"
"WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT"
"HELLOOOOO?"
Yeah, we have just been caught staring at her boobs, she feels offended and
you have to apologise and nervously continue the conversation.
Personally, I think we as guys rrrrreeeeaaaallllyyyy need to call women out
on this issue because it seems to be getting out of hand. Im tired of having to
apologise to a woman who is obviously putting her boobs on display by
wearing anything they KNOW will put their boobs on display.
The majority of women who do this are either ages 14-24, I chose these
ages because before 14, is before puberty and 24 is the last year that
women have before they start to wise up and realise they can no longer
play these dating games and no longer convince themselves that guys will
never stare at her boobs
If women did not want their breasts or any other body part looked at by men,
they should do these 3 simple things:
1. button up your shirt
if the offended woman would simply button up the first three buttons on
their shirts, she would probably find it easier to keep a dudes eyes from
wandering southward sometimes it would seem that 70% of women are oblivious
to this simple suggestion.
2. dont wear anything tight
wearing a top that is so tight that we can see your bra (or lack thereof)
underneath is really not helping the womens lib movement girls! the same
thing goes for pants too! If you are the type of girl who wears shorts so
short that your butcheeks are hanging out and then wonders why guys are
staring; you deserve every second of their gazing.
3. do not wear anything low-cut
this might be my own opinion, but all I'm saying is that men are wired
differently than women, nature put in us the ability to choose the right mate
by looking at their breasts, which meant that the woman will be able to
produce and nourish healthy offspring we as men are simply hard-wired to
notice things like that in the beginning, we are not being pervy, its pure
instinct. We WILL look at your breasts if they the neck line is long enough
to even see the top half of your breasts, and GOD FORBID you are not wearing
a bra and a chilly wind comes through, causing your nipples to stiffen
through your shirt.
Now sometimes (actually most of the time) you girls are quite aware of our
staring, know why we are staring, and still have the nerve to say
"What are you staring at?"
You know damn well what we are looking at.
We are looking at your breasts.
The reason for their behavior (most of the time) is for this one reason:
women want attention.
and they will get it any way they can.
hence the revealing outfits.
the conversation in their head goes something like this:
"look at me,look at me,look at me,look at me, pleeeeese look at me,
now stop staring at my breasts pervert!!!"
women like these are looking for attention, actually all women want attention
but unlike men, attention can be all she needs and they know they can get it
by wearing the right outfit.
All I'm saying in this post is that women know what they are doing, well
most of you do. And we all have to just realise that its all part of the game.
women know that you are looking, and they LOVE busting you for it.I am simply
just some random black guy who is willing to call women on their bullshit.
and just keep playing along.
Im just wired this way